Recently I got this question while scrolling down through my FB feed. It was asked by my bestest blog friend Izdiher. When I read this question I suddenly recalled my past experiences and the way how I had a deal with such situations.
So what is your take on lie? Especially when liars give explanation about something which you already know. This was her exact question.
I have decided to answer it here with the scenario when someone close to us lie unaware of the fact that we already knows the truth. To me, a lie is a overrated word. When we realize our close one is lying with us, our brain shuts down and just starts to judge the other person. We lose the control over our-self to understand his intentions of telling that lie.
When a person is lying to us he is either scared of hurting the other persons emotions or he is afraid of the drama that the other person is going to create which is far more to handle than a lie. Before we become angry on our loved ones for lying, it is must that we need to introspect by asking one simple question to our inner self. Did we give so much freedom to that person that he can trust and tell us the truth?
If not then we do not deserve to know each and every truth from the other person. This is the time when we need to start working on ourselves to be more better and accepting rather than being angry and making the other person feel guilty.
So readers... What is your take on lies? Do leave your response in the comments below.
So what is your take on lie? Especially when liars give explanation about something which you already know. This was her exact question.
I have decided to answer it here with the scenario when someone close to us lie unaware of the fact that we already knows the truth. To me, a lie is a overrated word. When we realize our close one is lying with us, our brain shuts down and just starts to judge the other person. We lose the control over our-self to understand his intentions of telling that lie.
When a person is lying to us he is either scared of hurting the other persons emotions or he is afraid of the drama that the other person is going to create which is far more to handle than a lie. Before we become angry on our loved ones for lying, it is must that we need to introspect by asking one simple question to our inner self. Did we give so much freedom to that person that he can trust and tell us the truth?
If not then we do not deserve to know each and every truth from the other person. This is the time when we need to start working on ourselves to be more better and accepting rather than being angry and making the other person feel guilty.
So readers... What is your take on lies? Do leave your response in the comments below.
